Guide to Power Words - How to Start and Keep The Conversation Going?
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You can be in full composure while talking work, but when you try to chat, you lose it.
It's easy to talk to people of either subject on the e-mail not only because their presence is not with you, but also because you are in your "space", and you have all the time in the world to think of what you want to say. You don't feel the need or pressure to say anything.
I'm sure most people are socially more graceful, but I know there are a lot who aren't.
To break the ice of the first conversation, try to be smart and play a little game with your prospects.
1. Try to learn as much information about them as you can.
Information about their families, pets, favorite food, birthdays etc. These makes wonderful topic for starting unconventional chat. It always boosts the conversation, and usually you can learn enough to know if she wants to see you again.
2. You discovered that she or he loves movies. You can then follow up on it.
How about the new movie hit? Or the latest development in widely popular movie technology? The possibilities for interesting topics are endless: DVD's, digital cameras, computer games …
3. Ask questions.
And try to make them "why", "how", or "what" questions that can't be answered with a simple "yes", "no", or "maybe". Instead try something like: "So, what was your favorite part of Sex and the City?"
4. Get involved.
Try your hand at chatting in a crowd. Groups of people get together and shoot the bull. See if you can tell a joke or be witty or bring up an interesting tidbit of information.
5. Come across your way to the clarification
Whenever you're faced with a dilemma; focus on the solution rather than on the difficulty. Think and talk about the ideal solution to the obstacle.